At another session, when we were sharing possible causes of homelessness, the conversation shifted to how do you know if someone IS homeless... IS really in need.
"He has a job. He must be bad at spending his money."
...Or maybe any number of financial burdens, personal tragedies, or natural disasters has caused him to beg for bus fare to get to a shelter for the night.
"She drove to the soup kitchen in a car, she can buy her own food!"
... But what if that car is her home? What if it is the only means for her to get to a job that doesn't pay well enough for her to feed her family as well as herself?
"His shoes are shiny and new. If he can afford to buy new shoes, why does he need our help?"
... How do we know that he wasn't walking around barefoot and someone took the shoes off their own feet to help him out?
Examples were flying around the room- notions I've heard before and likely thought myself. As I tried to offer alternative scenarios for every cynical statement and noted that such judgements were very unfair, something happened. One friend turned to another and said, "I just don't know if any of those things would happen. Like, giving away your shoes. I don't know anyone who would do that." A second friend replied, "I know someone who would give away their own shoes." A third friend replied, "I would totally do it. I have more shoes." Then a fourth friend replied to the first friend, "See, you do know people who would do that after all!"
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